Visit McGruff.org for fun and games from the National Crime Prevention Council.
- Get advice on staying safe
- Watch the webisode to find out how to stop a bully
- Meet McGruff the Crime Dog!
Tip of the Month: HELPING OUT IN THE COMMUNITY
You and your friends can help out in your neighborhood by taking some few simple steps each day:
Ask your teacher if you could help by erasing the blackboard, or if he or she needs help carrying supplies.
- Bake some goodies for the elderly people in your community.
- Offer to rake the lawns of those in your neighborhood who are not able to.
- Ask your parents if they need help around the house. For example, offer to fold the laundry while you watch the television...that way you both win!
- Collect donations for a local shelter or Red Cross office. These are just a few ideas that you can do to help out around your community.
Tips for Parents
Internet use has become the norm for most families today and is rapidly taking over television as the number one used form of entertainment in the home. With this increase in the use of the internet also comes the need for precautions to be taken where our children are concerned.
There are some people who use the Internet as a means to sexually exploit children. Some of these individuals are gradually able to seduce their targets through the use of attention, affection, kindness and even gifts. These individuals are often willing to devote considerable amounts of time, money and energy in the process. They listen to and empathize with the problems of children. They will be aware of the latest music, hobbies, and interests of children. They attempt to gradually lower children's inhibitions by slowly introducing sexual content and content into their conversations.
Adolescents and teenagers are particularly at risk at being the victims of sexual predators on the Internet because they often use the computer unsupervised and are more likely than younger children to participate in online discussions regarding companionship, relationships, or sexual activity.
What Are the Risks?
- Exposure to Inappropriate Material
A child may be exposed to inappropriate material that is sexual, hateful, or violent in nature, or encourages activities that are dangerous or illegal.
- Physical Molestation
Another risk is that, while online, a child might provide information or arrange an encounter that could risk his or her safety. In some cases a predator has used email, bulletin boards, and chat areas to gain a child's confidence that then arrange for a face-to-face meeting.
A child might encounter email or chat/bulletin board messages that are harassing, demeaning or belligerent.
- Financial Risk
A child might do something that has negative financial consequences such as giving out a parent's credit card number.
Signs That a Child Might be at Risk Online
- The child spends large amounts of time online, especially at night
Many children who fall victim to computer predators spend large amounts of time online, particularly in chat rooms. Children online are at the greats risk during evening hours. Most offenders spend their evenings online trying to locate and lure children.
- The child's computer has pornography on it
Pornography is often used in the sexual victimization of children. Child pornography may be used in attempt to show that sex between children and adults is "normal".
- The child receives telephone calls from unknown men or makes telephone calls, sometime long distance, to numbers not recognized by the parent
Most computer predators want to talk to their child victims on the telephone. While a child may be hesitant to give out his/her home telephone number, the offenders may give out theirs. With Caller ID, the predator can readily find out the child's phone number.
- The child receives mail, gifts, or packages from someone the parent does not know
As part of the seduction process, it is common for offenders to send letters, photographs, and all manners of gifts to their potential victims.
- The child turns the computer monitor off or quickly changes the screen on the monitor when a parent enters the room
A child looking at something he/she should not be or even talking to someone they should not be does not want the parent to see it on the screen.
- The child becomes withdrawn from the family
Computer predators will work very hard at driving a wedge between a child and their family or at exploiting their relationships. They will accentuate any minor problems at home the child might have. Children may also become withdrawn after they have been victimized.
By taking responsibility for your children's online computer use, parents can greatly minimize any potential risk of being online. Make it a family rule to:
- Never give out identifying information ,home address, school name, or telephone number, in a public message such as chat or bulletin boards, and be sure you're dealing with someone that both you and your children know and trust before giving out this information via email.
- Get to know the services your child uses. If you don't know how to log on, get your child to show you. Find out what types of information it offers and whether there are ways for parents to block out objectionable material.
- Never allow a child to arrange a face-to-face meeting with another computer user without parental permission.
- Never respond to messages or bulletin board items that are suggestive, obscene, belligerent, threatening, or make you feel uncomfortable. Encourage your children to tell you if they encounter such messages.
- Remember that people online may not be who they seem. Someone who says they are a "12-year-old-girl" could in reality be a 40-year-old man.
- Remember that everything you read online may not be true. Any offer that's "too good to be true" probably is. Be very careful about any offers that involve you coming to a meeting or having someone visit your home.
- Set reasonable rules and guidelines for computer use by your children. Discuss these rules and post them near the computer as a reminder. Remember to monitor their compliance with these rules, especially when it comes to the amount of time your children spend on the computer.
"My Rules for Online Safety"
(computer use rules for children)
- I will not give out personal information without my parent's permission.
- I will tell my parents right away if I come across any information that makes me feel uncomfortable.
- I will never agree to get together with someone I "meet" online without first checking with my parents. If parents agree to the meeting, I will be sure that it is in a public place and bring my mother or father along.
- I will never send a person my picture or anything else without first checking with my parents.
- I will not respond to any messages that are mean or in any way make me feel uncomfortable.
- I will talk with my parents so that we can set up rules for going online. We will decide upon the time of day that I can be online, the length of time I can be online and appropriate areas for me to visit. I will not access other areas or break these rules without their permission.